Spoken words have great power,

 

Spoken words have great power, 

to send one into dead sleep, 
to cause one to go into dream, 
to fly into day dreams, 
to rouse into action, 

to even make one to fall dead in astonishment , 
or even 
to commit suicide and die

but experience of silence makes one to use words to make one awaken into supreme knowledge

but alas, no words can work on a mentally deaf individual

so here comes the other side of words, ie listening or receiving aspect 

not all can receive all 

filtering , coloring, blocking, diluting, adulterating, interpreting, understanding, distortion, noise, giving different meanings, slant, bias, transmission losses, differ from person to person for the same words 

well meaning words from one reach other as hurt, insult, domination, patronizing, provocation, humiliation 

so what / where is the solution