love unconditional

As long as duality exists, even ''his'' love too is a bondage,

though it is subtlest, like silk thread

in the union, there is no relevance of love at all

individual and the body , limbs of the individual are in union, oneness,

here there is no question of love ,

if a mosquito bites, the hand just goes and slaps

if hungry , all actions required for eating just happen

so pure love is just union , 

wholeness undivided, self being itself ,

all other love is just dependent , subtle or gross, 

seeking variety of returns,

it changes, increases, decreases, even vanishes ,

or worse, becomes hate , disappointment, frustration,

jealousy, revengeful, anger, ruinous

so

one to rise to a state of ''united-ness' with himself,

not needing to wait for god any more,

in this state the universe becomes one with the individual ,

personality growing into one totality,

individuality expanding into unlimited infinite wall less whole

then every relation becomes just innocent ,

not demanding, not commanding,

not insisting, not taxing, not vexing .

till then it is more a embarrassment

or harassment really a punishment

but never it is a love nor friendship"