Relax , have charminar'' the most popular ad

smoking is injurious to health'' the usual caution

take what you want 

but you cannot escape the results/ consequences of your choice , even with your best attitude of ''detach from results of actions 

and one can learn good lessons and bad lessons

from one's encounters good or bad, most significant to the least and trivial,

and can make the best use of the wisdom gained

and making the encounters as the best opportunities to accomplish a turnaround in life and benefit

or

be a deaf dumb rolling stone gathering no mass ,

finally leading a life of weakness, disease, suffering and early death pitiably