Maturity, wisdom

 Maturity, wisdom

Mostly popular understanding is

''experience life in all possible ways; good-bad, bitter-sweet, dark-light, summer-winter. Experience all dualities. Don't be afraid of experience, because the more experience you have, the more mature you become.''

but

right understanding is

…….maturity does not dawn by experiencing , only mistakes get repeated leading to suffering , disease, death

maturity dawns only when one goes beyond the field of all experiences, beyond mind

Maturity did not come by analysis of the experiences ,their cause and effect, history of crime and suffering is repeating ,all over world

and history will repeat , unless the individual learns to go beyond the level of intellect,

like the criminal ratnakar , who was-- not --transformed into valmiki ,by only ''experiencing life in all possible ways; good-bad, bitter-sweet, dark-light, summer-winter. nor by Experiencing all dualities. without being afraid of experiences, or consequences’’.

since, the more experience he had, , the more criminal he remained without maturity

he was transformed- not -by .''analysis of the experiences ,their cause and effect, but by learning one simple thing of going beyond the field of mind , by which he became a mature wise person