ego and love

but the truth of the relation between ego and love, is as follows..

....only in the ''ultimate expanded ego state ''....ie.....in living the ''aham brahmasmi '' level, that '' universal love '' results............and in this highest ego state, there is no duality of ''me'' and ''others''.so there is no question of a war , so no question of win or lose 

it is the highest all winning,  win-win living , the lower self won over by the higher self