maazhi marati vakdi thikdi....vaachoonsaknaam ....livoon saknaam...boloonsaknaam ...me kaay saangtho malaabhi kalath naahi

 love unconditional 

As  long as duality exists, even ''his'' love too is a bondage,

though it is subtlest, like silk thread

in the union, there is no relevance of love at all

ndividual and the body , limbs of the individual are in union, oneness,

here there is no question of love ,

if a mosquito bites, the hand just goes and slaps

if hungry , all actions required for eating just happen

so pure love is just union , wholeness undivided, self being itself ,

all other love is just dependent , subtle or gross, seeking variety of returns,

it changes, increases, decreases, even vanishes ,

or worse, becomes hate , disappointment, frustration, jealousy, revengeful, anger, ruinous

so

one to rise to a state of ''united-ness' with himself,

not needing to wait for god any more,

in this state the universe becomes one with the individual ,

personality growing into one totality,

individuality expanding into unlimited infinite wall less whole

then every relation becomes just innocent ,

not demanding, not commanding,

not insisting, not taxing, not vexing .

till then it is more a embarrassment

or harassment really a punishment

but never it is a love nor friendship"

 Life presents complex unforeseen situations how to escape?

 My love is not blind 

My love is not blind, not unconditional

it's completely conditional subject to the quality, nature, value, of the recipient 

it is extremely precious , rare wealth, not to be wasted , not to be thrown at the swine 

it should not result in '' bhais ke sasmne been bajaana''

the recipient has to earn my favour, by working hard for it 

it is not free, love is god 

my love goes only to the best deserving, 

not to those casual, idlers, 

straying aimless, being worthless

my love is highly choosy, discriminating, purposeful, 

though i have abundance of it

it is for you to deserve it , and get it 

on my own i will not serve it

 An Offer You Can't Refuse: Leadership Lessons From "The Godfather" | Fast Company

 

a wonderful way of learning most useful lessons

from not so useful missions or machinations .

 

books or teachers interactions, experiences , encounters  can be any 

but a diligent student is ever after honey 

 Love is beyond understanding

Love is beyond understanding. 

One can not arrive there through understanding alone

it happens in the'' myness '',

we love some one / some thing ,

since our heart says they are ''mine, a part of me ,'' 

a child is loveable not only to mother, but to others as well , 

since one directly feels the belonging for child in the heart,

though understanding does tell that, that child belongs to others

 On love, on god, on reality, on spiritual experience,

----any perception of delay, is deceptive,

robs the aspirant of the possibilities of infinite potentialities of present moment, 

never never say ''baad me dekhaa jaayegaa''

''baad me'' never happens , 

and life is wasted

in waiting, anticipating, surmising,

blogging, suspecting, inhibiting,

hesitating, questioning, doubting,

thinking, calculating,

 

this is the fate of the followers, 

this is fate of even the masters,

 

none knowing , none having a glimpse , 

none comprehending the evident instant reality 

all looking at each other, 

having forgotten to look at themselves for a moment,

 

and waiting and waiting for that great thing to happen 

which will never happen 

oh god pleases help them

all with your kindest love

instantly and now , 

immediately and this moment