In life one's priorites are his own

even in the life of the best professional, his family suffers
seeing the contributions he is a success,
seeing the neglect of home, he is failure 
ones in public life we enter, our'' family becomes '' wider family '', dictating its own demands . and one cannot be Pl spend some time in association with at least one great | Wellness Blog on Speakingtree.inPl spend some time in association with at least one great soul and learn the basics directly work in the service activities , at least--- you--- do not get affected by this gurubash mania 
i donate out of my heart, not for asking, but out of my inspiration, such is the powerfull knowledge and experience of absolute that my gutru has given , even i can work day and night for the cases my guru is committed 
i only pity the onlookers watching from window standing in varandah without really knowing things ending up becoming a laughing stock whenexpressing their surmises and conjectures in impressive blogs with fantastic visuals 
who cares
i do not  go by such blogs when authenticity of experience provides the full real insights in the life best in every aspect 

if i see sitha as mother or sister, in my ''small family'', yes ram did unpardonable injustice to her., almost inhuman
if i see sitha as my co citizen of my bigger family, under the rule of a just king, then , i praise for his sacrifice for a bigger cause, and call him ideal, raja ram