love is myness, unlimited, unconditional. nonselective, non exclusive, universal , experience, being living

 

if not ,it's------ pretense, mask, lust, attraction, base instinct for sensual pleasure ,selfishness, sentiment, fleeting play of mind

“Lack of love is the reason for the existence of all the qualities such as anger, hatred, jealousy etc.”

 

and all kinds of things looking like /and called by this word'' love '' are no substitute to the love you described here

all the lovers and beloved better note and come out of delusion of conditional love, faking , self deceiving and deceiving others

I did similar thinking, on the subject and thru experience i understood what true love is once for all---that experience is unique, lasted for a few minutes--and this has been enough for me for a life time, ''a life in love with life''

 

And knew that all cupidity is only stupidity, though both stupidity and cupidity are divine for the clear and sole purpose of procreation

But not to be duped into deception that this '' i love you '' thing is the end all and be all --under the influence of media mania, presenting commercial nudity encashing this baser cravings or sense gratification , and deteriorating values in the society , with skin exposure becoming the symbol of top culture

Love is god

love realized if god realized

god realized in the deepest samadhi reached thru meditation

coming out of meditation, one is totally a different person,

experiencing love to all in the universe from the nearest kith kin

to all the creatures in the vicinity, and far universe,

wanting to share his new found feeling of

--all of you and all this are/is mine and me, none other,

this feeling goes beyond all barriers and biases of every label,

truly bringing all in to one's heart .

this is a matter of direct experience,

no description can transmit the experience to the reader/listener.

 

if you really want to live in in the luxury of plenty, inexhaustible, unconditional love

then take this key, and open the door of the supreme reserve bank,

become the owner of it , and overwhelm all in its great experience,

 

be not lifelong , simply, hoping, groping, searching, surmising,

thinking, postponing, blogging ,and dialoging.

This elaboration emphasizes the need of the direct experience of god/absolute---what ever label you call it -------and nothing less can give that experience

 

Then how is that child is full of love with parents with friends with strangers with dolls with dogs cats witth even with throwing things aside or crawling or falling

answer is simple

he is in god

state original, hence in state of true love;

 

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"We need one another indeed to live in the world...None can live in isolation".... if you mean "isolation" as staying away from other people, yes.... To me, isolation has broad sense. Isolation is the greatest state one can attain. He is isolated from his body, mind and intellect... In that sense, isolation is preferred and possible.

 

 

all should rise to the level of saying emphatically--

i love my neighbors’ wife

i love my neighbor

i love my country my earth my sun my moon my stars my universe

as dear as my limbs, hands, feet, head, , all its good bad beauty ugly external internal

it's nothing

it's just living

 

my experience totally confirms the validity of this definition

Sriharibhakthirasamritasindhu

defines love

thus

samyam masrunitha swantho mamathvathishayankitha

bhaava sa eva saandraathmaa budhyhi prema ni gadyathe

the wise call that as prema, love, thru which the heart becomes tender

and in the mind mamatha bhavana, [ my-ness], is created

[i was pleasantly surprised to stumble up on this definition after decades of my experience, and my direct knowledge of what love is or can be

it was almost the same experience i did have,

and on certain of the days when the system gets sufficient degree of purity this experience repeats and gradually stabilizes, as the sadhana matures

the first experience of this state is the beginning of the true love story

 

who are the partners

i am the manmatha, universe is the rathi

my unmanifest purusha, and the manifeted universe are the love pairs

in such a state , where is the place for any negativity

there is gulf between this and the usual sensual attraction

in this devotee becomes an vunmaththa, attains to the rasika roopa of bhagavan

those many a bhakthas who have experienced this, have been there in bhaarath

these bhakthas have fabulously , beautifully described krishna and his madhura leelas , krishna having been their aalambana

one such bhaktha shikhamai is leelasuka[bilvamangala]

 

 

I am extremely happy to find ar is one person who went in to this enigma penetratingly, layer by layer and arrived at the truth, the true definition of love, mostly i find in many write ups the authors are not clear, hence in confusion and can succeed in confusing the readers

 

Here the partners i and god , i and universe are in soul to soul relation

neither the distance, nor vicinity nor the condition matters

and soul to soul true love is the basis for any relation including the most critical relation the conjugal relation between man and wife

the sensory affairs has its place, but soul to soul adds the true flavor color charm durability irrespective of age or old age

a couple in soul relation surrenders unconditionally to each other and such couple really enjoys double heaven of senses to the ultimate and beyond the senses in love till old age and death

my observation is the basis on this, though i am not an authority on marital subject since i being brahma chari

and hence

i can see as an uninvolved seer all the intricacies based on the experience of absolute which forms the full basis for any experience out of nava rasas

 

Ssy ------rishi prabhakars course provides the great experience of love abundantly, the details i am not disclosing, it is to be undergone and experienced first hand

love, this is one basic topic i liked most , me having unveiled fully the everlasting enigma

 

bst, and rishi prabhakar

i had his association in ou, hyd, on super memory seminar and sathsang, and games

great simple guy, absolute free intimate loving,

also i met first time when he was giving a course in bst

he gave time and talked to be, no fear, just casual,

it inspired me to be with ssy , to teach cssy ---all great experience,

 

 

all should rise to the level of saying emphatically--

i love my neighbor’s wife

i love my neighbor

i love my country my earth my sun my moon my stars my universe

as dear as my limbs, hands, feet, head, , all its good bad beauty ugly external internal

it's nothing

it's just living