Eka
brahmachari shatha markatah
…….3
ways of seeing this, all 3 are right
one
brahmachari has energy of 100 monkeys
one
brahmachari is as mischievous as 100 monkeys
one brahmachari has an
intelligence equivalent to 100 monkeys
Eka
brahmachari shatha markatah
…….3
ways of seeing this, all 3 are right
one
brahmachari has energy of 100 monkeys
one
brahmachari is as mischievous as 100 monkeys
one brahmachari has an
intelligence equivalent to 100 monkeys
brahmacharya
this aspect
distinguishes human from animal , Senses turning inwards, instincts of
survivals getting regulated for higher purpose in life , eventually overcoming
the limitations of 4 , aahaar nidra bhaya maithuna------is the full perspective
of the word celibacy, and is the result of one living in brahman consciousness,
ie brahma charya
without realizing and
living brahman consciousness , brahmacharya, one cannot be a true celibate,
without brahman
consciousness , celibacy is most difficult path of mind/sense control , it is
the way of ignorant
in brahman
consciousness, living becomes most natural, as senses having tasted the joys of
brahmanand, naturally become averse to anything less than it , are naturally
are tuned to it, are naturally turned inwards towards it
"I can understand
from my own experience, brahmacharya is really a shield protecting me from any
distracting inputs, all the nudity, vulgarity in the media , movies and visuals
has no effect , without any of my struggle ."
"''There is another
option those who engaged in their profession so intensely deeply can control
such natural urge
they are transformed it
into their profession and they only can be called masterminded in one field
...for example if somebody is painter even painting for nude cannot make them
to feel in chaste thought they just dive deep in that
complete control of the
senses. is impossible without This realization
realization can happen
easiest in as is where is state thru guru guidance without loss of time
''Brahmacharya means control in thought, word and action, of all the senses at
all times and in all places.''---------this is the mature state of sadhana,
leading to ultimate mastery but it happens gradually, one gains control in
degrees as sadhana continues
during sadhana, ie till
one gets total control, it is necessary t o follow dos and donts prescribed by
guru, and it does need some effort , here faith helps ''it is possible to
practice such Brahmacharya in thought, word and action to the fullest extent
though it may be very difficult.''
thus such individuals
increasing in society will bring in the total transformation and crimes will
reduce/ vanish it is imperative that everyone has to strive to reach this goal
for individual/ social/ universal good
"Self-realization
is
1 first to get a glimpse
of the self , by any means , by any help
2 then sustain the
practice, that momentary glimpse becomes stable 24 hours , in the mature level,
in this one overcomes the body consciousness, though living in the body complex
of thoughts, speech and actions. and always experiencing his real
transcendental unmanifest existence the transformation from stage 1 to 2 may
happen rapidly or slowly on the intensity of sadhana"
"But we can suggest
a few lines of investigation at best as a help
and if interested, one
pursues and gets at the direct experience himself, not needing any one to
convince ''The full and proper meaning of Brahmacharya is search of Brahman.''
-----and living the truth of existence as a reality of life ''Brahman pervades
every being and can therefore be searched by realizing the inner
self.''-----------the brahman being the unmanifst , underlying the every
manifestation, it is not perceivable thru sense and intellect or emotion ,
but comes to be experienced easily in the inner self , as the self itself , as
the pure awareness"
'It is the fashion
nowadays to dismiss God altogether''------since meaning one assigns to the this
word ''god '' differs , and just will not appeal to the so called
''rationalists'' ''the possibility of reaching the highest kind of life without
the necessity of a living faith''-----also may be feasible, , since paths are
plenty initially faith helps, gradually cognizing the truth of god dispenses
the need of faith ''i must confess my inability to drive the truth of the law
to those who have no faith in and no need for a Power infinitely higher than
themselves.''-------each has a view of his own valid for him
it is impossible to
convince anyone on these abstract matters. , so we will not try to convince,
but we can suggest a few lines of investigation at best as a help"
this is vital----
''Better start early in life, 12 years is a long time, ''since human is born
with certain remnant impurities, and accumulates further impurities in every
encounter/ action . the body mind nervous system are like cooking vessel needs
to be cleaned after use regularly, and reach a state of ''nonstick ''
eventually refinement i/ cleaning s a delicate process takes its own time, can
be accelerated by intensive practices. since it takes time, the tradition has
been to give initiation into meditation practice quite early to the youth , by
the time he grows into a adult he comes out with the sufficient level of purity
, the right qualification to lead a human life . irrespective of gender it is
applicable,
ability the human
gains to cognize insights, life's secretes, the intricate laws of nature from
within once access to this core is gained, one's life turns aligned with all
the laws of nature, no more mistakes, one acts spontaneously flawless the
scriptural essence get revealed from inside, as if it is open book"
it is just a little
diversion, mind is given the experience of brahman consciousness , mind finds
that this experience is more charming than all the worldly pursuits . and thru
regular contact with it , the mind is in sathsang with the brahman
consciousness and gradually acquires the qualities of that consciousness, which
are very pleasing to the mind , and takes a natural direction to function as
per the natural law
this brahman
consciousness, the core of individual, i, aham , ie individual takes over the
control on the mind and will be able to experience and enjoy life more glorious
than that obtainable by money./ sense gratification
his desires rise to
higher pedestal , ie his desires become refined, and easy to accomplish as well
such a person sees
things in grand perspective , will not fall for petty attractions"
lost time is lost
forever but the present moment has infinite possibilities one can start with
learning meditation in as is where is level irrespective of age etc , a
student/ a professional/ or businessman/ whatever it is just sparing a few
minutes morning and evening .as the practice continues , results unfold"
"A training in
brahma vidya must go hand in hand with education right from the beginning.
crime events unfolding
endlessly , are inevitable consequences of this one single lack
i feel it is the ability
to gain insights any way , now the social consciousness in media and , law is
rising which in a way acts as deterrent, but fundamental , root level solution
is the contact with the brahman, the pure consciousness, one has to gain to
really gain control over once life"
"Ancient history /
culture is surely a great help, since it had the experience of the light of
transcendent, guiding the movement of individuals and the society in the right
direction , the words in anjaneya dandakam '' namasthe sadaa brahmachari '' has
been an eternal inspiration since my adolescent days, and i kept a photo of
hanuman in my hostel room during my studies which helped me just not to get
distracted
i happened to
possess the tiny book ''thus spake swami vivekananda'', and has been a
practical guide ,"
in the flood of
modernity. i myself , having come in association with guru and meditation
movement, quite early, naturally preferred to be brahmachari , and i find that
i have a shield against all inputs, and it is a blessing thru guru krupa , at
workplace, during lunch time ,my colleagues male and female used to do group
meditation
"In
contrast with this art of right conduct, society is degrading as if helplessly
pushed down the hills ''
what
a fall !
!!या देवी सर्वभुतेषु मातृरूपेण संस्थिता ।
नमस्तस्यै नमस्तस्यै नमस्तस्यै नमो नमः ॥२५॥
Yaa
Devii Sarva-Bhutessu Maatr-Ruupenna Samsthitaa
|Namas-Tasyai
Namas-Tasyai Namas-Tasyai Namo Namah ||25||
To
that Devi Who in All Beings is Abiding in the Form of Mother,Salutations to
Her, Salutations to Her, Salutations to Her, Salutations again and again.
contrast
on the earth plane, shudders one to see the unending episodes of use and throw,
rape and kill , dowry deaths, honor-kill, torture ,torment, assaults at work
place, doctor rapes patient, teacher rapes student,, police rapes the woman,,
educated rapes the illiterate ,godman rapes the shishya ,warden rapes the
inmates ,clergy rapes the faithful, rich rapes poor, civilized rapes
the tribal, politician rapes the voter, legislator relishes nude on
mobile in the assembly hall ,child girl is thrown in dust bin killing
of baby at birth destroying the pinda before birth , birth control
population controls, condoms pills ,the media, movies, ads, dance bars, cat
walks, beauty parades, discotheques trying to thrive on making the
female to strip and dance, at every context under every pretext,
with obscenity, vulgarity, as the main feeds, with bedroom, bathrooms scenes,
with cds, video recording at lodges and malls, annihilation of
the species by interfering with natural balance,
what
a fall, oh man , quo vadis,"
The
day will come ,when we all awaken our souls,, individually first, drop by drop
this individual awakening makes the mighty ocean, the awakened collective
consciousness, which makes us to Unite ,and act as per divine natural law ,---
eliminates ---the need to raise our voices--- to reach our set goals ,
silently, surely , early any shouting, demos, candle light marches , protests,
hunger strikes, are just waste
silently
meditate , that's it
heaven
dawns on earth .gender crimes is only one of the several , innumerable types
crimes
once
the collective consciousness is raised, crime rate falls drastically,
instantaneously , without the need of law enforcement and punishment"
"Living
in brahman consciousness is the unique effective only solution , no other
solution can/ will help really as seen by the repeating episode history of
crimes"
"I
know he has come there at your door in pushpak viman, a seat is reserved for
you i shall meet you as soon as you come there at ''self'' name "
Chintamani " It is one of the name of god Ganesh, also it means whichever
we think in mind we get it it is also name of a wish fulfilling
jewel , some green stone"
"Tendencies
persist, unless attention is trained to go inward , "
"1
i note , chintamani , is such a noble soul, just uncared for the human body ,
just may be doing the allotted duty as a family profession, but with extremely
unattached , is able to impart such impact thru her words the purity she lived
is the basis for the power of her words
2
seth was too a typical unusual person with ability to see in higher
perspective, without jumping to conclusions
3
for awakening, no preconditions exist, his grace is for all
i
was disturbed to see the repeating crime episodes , i was puzzled on how we all
can get rid of such sorrowful frightful happenings in the life i find some
solace in this story, in which bilwabangal who had got similarly trapped in
similar situation , could come out free by just shifting the focus towards the
god. help does come from unexpected quarters, even as it came from
chintamani"
"He
comes running to save the devotee , like in gajendra moksha"
"There
is a power, an unseen force, guiding us. "
it
is said that without the permission of god even an ant cannot bite
true,
in the ultimate level, every mistake done by the employees, ceo alone is
responsible, but employees are given freedom /option within limits , which must
not
be misused , by not crossing limits though god is responsible, if one puts his
finger in the fire, one gets burns"
"If
the product is already a perfect one, god will not allow this test to happen
so
a true devotee is exempted from devil test ,all the difficulties are
tests for the devotees to improve their faith and increase their strength"
"On
the ultimate perspective, devil is a part of god's quality control department ,
like destructive testing of a product products undergo a lot of environments
tests , flame test, humidity, test salt water spray, vibration tests, to make a
product all weather proof the tests are done officially quality inspectors are
like devils to the products a criminal attacks a person in atm, that proves
that the atm system designed is not up to the mark this feedback is for
ensuring to redesign the system and make it better"
Eka brahmachari shatha markatah
Brahmacharya is the
foundation for a meaningful life, for joys much more than the sensuous.
if the foundation is weak the building of life
is bound to collapse, sooner than later
causing the inevitable ruin to self and society
it's the best insulating shield against all the
dangerous inputs / encounters
any other solution, soft or harsh, including the
punishment, death etc is not going to help
history is repeating, will repeat with
vengeance, until the human rediscovers this only, only, effective solution,
brahmacharya,
and starts implementing in the current
times
for disciplining this eternal, natural,
procreative instinct , designed for perpetuation of human race for both
genders,
this automatically stops the commercial
exploitation of sacred female physiology in every movie and every
advertisement
and takes the race to the yatha poorve
level
where woman will be worshiped as god
as One of the verses from Manu Smriti
says,
Yatra Nari Astu Pujyante, Ramante Tatra Devataa
– meaning Gods reside in places where a woman is
worshiped
brahmachari is a great manthra for me, always
..
ever since my early youth ......
it is all guru krupa ...being thankful to my
guru.........
in the present trend of kaliyuga, .....with
episodes of gender based crimes, illegal sex affairs, murders, suicides....all
for petty sensual pleasures,
sri anjaneyam ,prasannanjaneyam, namasthe ..
sadaa brahmachari
.namasthe...namasthe..............................................................................................................guru
shishya parampara is to pass on the technique of atmanubhuti , easily,
instantly ie meditation , .
one becomes rishi
and thru sustained practice this atmanubhuti
gets stabilized 24 hours,,,,,
one rises to maharishi, devarishi, brahmarshi,
and enjoys a higher life in jeevanmukthi ..............
but but the purity of teaching gets lost in
the parampara in course of time , sadhana becomes ineffective, .......
so the new aspirant should explore experience,
discover and tread on the right path ....since there are several systems
i found TM is the best after exploring many
beauty
of character
1
a spiritual, a mother of two daughters , gave a wild powerful slap, uttered no
word, when a guy in bus faulted, she flabbergasted all,
guy hid his face, slipped out-----
2
when a ''gentleman'' sitting behind was reaching the bottoms of a lady, in a
bus, '' i said what are you doing'' he said '' sorry , by mistake''
i
said '' do not repeat the mistake'' he got up changed his seat----
3
my point is sensible responses to happen.-----
but
how many can one can counter?
to counter, one has to be upright,
4
so character need to be built
5
thru character, i can close my eyes, if i cannot cover a bare body---
still
better
6 akka mahadevi , says
--brother, why my nudity should prick you?
this
is the best message , i learnt, why not i be like a child,
when
mother walks bare, like in episode of sathi anusooya[?], where 3 gods were
turned in to babies
the
quest continued , guru graced,
every media, visual, movie, scenes., models galore have no effect on me ,
i always see god's best creation in all
lalithamba's
laavanya in every female , gods great doll,
my
emphasis is on building character in human male or female,
not to succumb for petty tendencies,
missing
the beauty of natures products with perception blurred, action faltered
Guru
grace made me to see the real nakedness of beings,
their barest existence, absolute, pure consciousness,
the infinitely beautiful ,
all heavens beauty , apsara, devi devathas
--the beauty of physical shapes and bodies is because of it .
being
is never the bare out side
All gender based problems are caused by persistent body consciousness.
the solution for this is to develop higher consciousness in the individuals and society ,
then any sensory distractions will not happen.
human sees the far higher divinity,
far exceeding divine beauty every where
not only in the female figure,
will not be subjected to any baser pulls from instincts,
any lesser solution cannot give a real cure"
hence the need to realign ourselves with the noble life style of 4 ashramas for which Brahmacharya is the foundation"
"The story of Ṛṣyaśṛṅga has lessons for parents and youth I quote‘’
rishi Vibhandaka, his father was seduced by the celestial danseuse Urvasi ,Rishyasringa.
was born However, immediately after the child was born, Urvasi, after
completing the duty she was sent for, left the infant child and her lover and
made her way to the heavens. The incident left the father with extreme hatred
towards women folk, and he raised the boy in a forest, isolated from society.
He never saw any girls or women, and was not told of their existence.And this
endowed him miraculous powers. at that time the kingdom of Anga suffers from
drought and famine. The king, is told that this can only be alleviated by with
the powers that come from observance of perfect chastity. The only such person
is Rishyasringa. He has to be brought to the city, and be persuaded to carry
out the necessary ceremoniesthe king sends young women, and later his daughter
Shanta, to introduce the boy into normal society. This is done, Rishyasringa
uses his powers, the kingdom receives bountiful rains and Rishyasringa marries
Shanta. Much of the story is taken up by accounts of the feelings of the young
man as he becomes aware of women for the first time’’unquote
Lessons
1 kaama , lust is a powerful natural instinct
, even great rishis fall , requires rigorous austerities to gain and sustain
self control
2 parents can/ should bring up children in a
protected environ, away from attractions, so that personality blossoms with all
powers and glory , to do good to the world
3 the nature has it’s own purpose in creating
mutual attraction, environ has enough lures, not under one’s control
4 but man can win over the natural instinct by
orienting his attention on the ultimate goal of life , without falling on the
way
5 a proper training and guidance will
definitely produce desirable results
6 the issue deserves all serious concern in
life ,not to treat it in casual manner
7 youth and the adults better read good wholesome literature, and lives of rk and Vivekananda, and all such saints and great personality to get inspiration to set themselves on the right track"
"''Those who had and loved a Mother would not do such a disgusting thing.'' fantastic cause and solution i too firmly believe that , due to various reasons we are all missing the one basic, ie mother's love
we are too early thrown out away from her purest love, care, caress. our values have not been properly blossomed in right direction with her due attention , hence all this gender crimes
"In this state, gradually one becomes so much positively oriented naturally without any effort or control, that any distractions / encounter s of any nature, skin exposures, vulgarities , dress, gestures, talk, provocations, will not affect his composure, he will not become impotent, but highly virile, yet inward directed in thinking talking and behaviour towards higher goals , aesthetic values life, he neither likes nor dislikes, neither resists neither insists, nor runs away, nor closes his eyes and ears but just sees all the happenings in evenness of vision ,accepting and appreciating the ways of the supreme in the universe, does not interfere, does not plead for transformation of the world, he has transformed himself to a level that sails him safely ashore"
"I am talking of much higher consciousness, brahman consciousness, in which one gains the ability to master all his instincts and his behavior naturally getting regulated to fall in line with the evolutionary trend and higher purpose , it is humanly possible and there are examples from past and living in present times .it's the art leading intelligent life , and a few are in this line already . more must discover such paths and gradually help in raising the world consciousness.even some westerners are in this line seriously"
"This is a matter of direct experience, the truth of which to be verified by each individual , himself reaching that level , never can be really estimated, never can be under estimated in this state, the essential feature that happens is the Real goodness flowing abundantly through grace of God, nullifying the need of any pretense what so ever, life long.and the individual experiences secure against all the undesirable inputs, completely unperturbed. and his tendencies will be just all positive, helpful, friendly, kind, towards all in the universe, and females in particular . his view has become so much expanded that virtually he lives a god on earth mine is not a imagination or nor a conjuncture, but it is a practical possibility, ---based on my familiarity with this subject on practical level ---and so is worth attempting in life, instead of doing all patch work of reforming others , which never can succeed. why at all some one agrees to others' dictates whether male or female, each has his / her ability of discrimination and would go by own value system on what is good and bad, and is prepared to reap the consequences too and as long as human beings remain in the lower level of consciousness, what ever they do or do not do will not be successful , though done in extreme sincerity , putting in all the dos and donts my point may not be readily taken , but truth remain irrespective of disapproval"
"Akkamahadevi, lived bare without clothes, slept in open places at temple ruins -----------but safely, happily joyfully"
"Let's not isolate to a section, in the growing youth every where , the nature has ways of exciting with slightest hint , it's biological for all beings , the reproductive instinct"
"Let man learn and elevate himself to be unmoved against all temptations it is a challenge
incidentally, the almighty nature is testing the human beings , even a destructive test, to teach lessons of life and become better , nobler, like shiva, passing the test of manmatha, like bhasmasura, failing in the test in the farm of mohini's antics, like ram with one wife principle, like ravan violating and meeting the end despite his tapasya now the modern human has to pass this test, no matter what the national police/ judiciary/ legal/ verma contributions in this regard can be the severest test is let there be 100 distractions, man must remain unmoved , let him struggle and learn that kind of discipline and pass the nature's test triumphantly"
no dress code can save a man from instinct to man if you want to blame, blame yourself lf the nature is so powerfully designed that even a thought of the female is enough to seduce the man if someone blames women for unintended exposure, it's only to pass buck vemana, was visiting the prostitute, his well wishing brother's wife asked him to request the prostitute to bare herself yes he did ask, and she did oblige lo !after seeing her naked body, vemana was completely disillusioned, and turned himself into a transformed man, saw the futility of the temptations and became a saint, beyond body consciousness. my point is , the control is in your hand , not elsewhere, whatever may be the distractions .i feel that , let sisters and mothers live in the way they want to live, as a class, female is no slave to obey male on how to be , how to dress or how to behave"
"Granted, yes, certainly . there need be no negating , no suppressing the nature , one need not be a lifelong celibate that is why the system of marriage, gruhastha ashram, at the eligible age, for the fruitful, purposeful fulfillment of inescapable natural instinct and procreation to sustain the race but this will be a grand success if only the life's 4 ashrams are on the strongest foundation of brahmacharya, that is, one must become eligible to get into marriage by graduating thru the first brahmacharya, ie gaining the ability of moving in brahman consciousness, consequently , gaining the ability to mould his instincts at will .---failing which, the institution of marriage gets shattered by unruly desire seeking any number of undesirable ways,---like illegal/immoral/ ''keeps'' relationships, prostitution, polygamy, polyandry, and uncouth social behaviour , in some cases even with willing consent from spouse and worse still , --like rape, murder, torture, my emphasis is on mastery over oneself , by any effective means , traditional or modern which really works if not , whatever surface treatment done, the history repeats in one form or the other parents hold the key more than others to nurture the good character"
Abstinence is the result of
senses getting inward to be in union with brahman
as a result of
a long, sustained practice
of turning the
awareness inward
this is
brahmacharya, moving in the state of Brahman
in this state
all the senses, ---all the senses---will be experiencing a superior joy, which
will not be obtainable only with sensory
it is the
effect of spiritual progress, not the cause nor the requirement
on the way to a hotel
, in my first official tour,
--------1on the way to
a hotel , in my first official tour, ----- in my early youth------i was taken
by a taxi fellow to thru the streets where prostitutes were out at their doors,
windows with their antics of skin exposure and sly smiles.
i saw like gautham
[budha] what and how the life is and working
i learnt a lesson,
never to look at naked figures, nor yield for distractions however attractive
they may be
even to day , i am
thankful for the pimp, the taxi driver and to my dear prostituting mothers and sisters
for helping me, to go in the right way , quite early in life
and to be in st with
such eligibility
2 earliest , in career
, on getting confirmation as engineer, after apprenticeship, , we friends
arranged a party in a hotel----''Three Aces'' --whose standard ad has been
''tonight and every
night
rendezvous of the
elite''
so we met there, we
are ''elite'' you know?
well , it was first
experience , for me , may not be for others
server with all
''courtesy'' served beer , music lilting was enchanting
i looked at it , some
brownish, but smell not inviting , i kept aside
But all were sipping
with great relish, with jokes to go with .
ok
now from the corner
stepped out a barely clad female, with smiles, body curving, steps dancing to
the rhythm of the song, hands making all kinds of twists turns stretches, lifts
up down side ward fingers in peculiar posture
She was moving
''gracefully'' to every table and delicately extending welcome to the subtle
advances the customers were gesticulating, some trying to touch her, some
trying to insert currency notes in her bikini
Every one was enjoying
the others “performance'' and eagerly waiting for their turn
it was 10 pm
i was told more show
to come with band party readying themselves to come to the floor
but
Gotham in me , made me
to get up , i just excused my self to the friends, and silently slowly walked
out of the hotel
went home , slept a
sound sleep , not worried bit about this great night shows
gain i felt , i am
thankful to all for this early practical lessons in life
3 this when in college
the not so crowded que
while slowly moving for darshan of great lord venkateshwara in tirupati,
i was pushed from
behind by the breasts of a woman / girl, pretending to be getting pushed in the
crowd,, there was enough space was there , and shy availed the opportunity to
get pressed and may be she was starved for it , she did 2/3 times and with
smile, she was looking beautiful, from good family
i tried to move away
to keep a respectable gap , but still she was hungry persisting
balaji must have
closed his eyes.
but i opened my eyes
and quickly finished his holy darshan to avoid unholy sparshan and rushed away
without looking back
without looking back
still i am rushing away at every such encounters from any great mother /sister
all along life, thanking god to helping me
now iam budha from
gatham i graduated
all due to my
encounters in life quite early in life
keechad se kamal