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Shine with the five stars! | Self Improvement Blog on Speakingtree.inFor a growing star performer,, praise misleads,
praise may be a well considered assessment, or just casual formality, or just not to displease, not to pick quarell, just for mutual good, 

truth is though not pleasing some times, appears as criticism ''king going naked'' helps the king and others to wake up, praise is an intoxication, a veil, an obstruction for growth, one remains alpa santoshi 

But i find some masters , and some master bloggers look only for 

praise, head count, not the content of heads, 

they resent criticism, feel leg-pulling,

if a different angle of truth is shown by a stray reader , not liked by their limited grasp

brand him as ''absurd, ''egoist,''vagabond, ''useless, ''stone, ''arrogant,'' impudent'

they remain immune for suggestions for improvement, 

assuming that their merit is assessed by praises

they go in the same grove, no growth, though time is passing, 

though innumerable suggestions pour in into their every blog 

i find real growth is missing 

but only praise for them is growing 

like in the story 

''some monkeys around a glow worm , assuming that is fire, 
and trying hard to light the fire, 
to basking themselves in the cold around it , 
and when a rabit who tells the truth that it is not fire, 
they hound it and kill it ''