tension between genders

yes, why this ,why thus--- is to be looked into

this is where the book value of the great scriptures is to be owned in the contemporary routine chores by reading and heeding in the core of our hearts,

as the personality blossoms from childhood to adolescent to adulthood into the enlightened manhood

the ancient antics of manmatha

the vile intentions of ravana

do manifest due to the tendencies,

and start playing havoc in the mind of human being

--be it male or female, animal or insect , even a plant tender Simultaneously, 

now is the time, for the emergence of shiva, the kama dahana, rama the purushothama to keep them in check----not after yugas  now

 how to make them to sprout inside now?

this is where we lack the knowledge and technique of living the values of shiva and ram at the right time in the prime of life.

reason is we lost the tradition of 4 ashrams

starting with brahmacharya, moving in brahman,-as a foundation for he edifice of the building of life of 3 more ashrams

--so damage has been done , none to be blamed

but all remain to share shame

What is the solution

guru krupa continues as a tradition to teach the way to contact the source of shiva, ram ,the home of all virtues in side, when contacted and made lively in life, such tensions vanish, the tendencies get subdued, perspective of life is understood, the thought talk and walk become purposeful beneficial to individual and society and women are respected , men are respected not as gender id but beyond as soul id .

all moral edu preaching teaching will be waste

without the real inner transformation to have shiva with his third eye, the enlightened awareness wakes up, the virtuous rama is reborn in side us