Since child is god

lalitamba is nascent , hence pure at it its origin 

so full of love

so reach again to the nascent-ness 

the just born state 

the innocent child state

vata pathra  shayee, and love bubbles out overflows 

the key is to gain original purity , in the body mind nervous system by contacting regularly with the unmanifest pure consciousness within simplest way is meditation for a few minutes ,added to the daily schedule ---no big deal

no secrete, no wait , nothing preparation nor prerequisite"